Sex Cravings

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Hello great minds!🍷

Our week is going as planned I guess??

 Today will be looking at some less discussed issues that affect love relationships in the world of 21st century. Sex is exciting and interesting but it should not be a wear and tear adventure. 

Let's here this from Kufre a wonderful Coach!

Sexual expectations from my generation has shot🌱 over the roof🏚️

I might be wrong but I've seen enough to say this. 

I wasn't around during the 60s and 70s to know the sexual orientation and expectations of our parents but I'm sure as hell it wasn't what it is today. 

"Regular and normal" sexual positions like missionary were prevalent then. I might be wrong but I can't imagine cowgirl or doggy in the 60s and 70s. 

Sex was just for procreation🤰 and I'm sure it didn't take more than 3 -5 minutes and each person goes their way. 

Nowadays, my generation has completely changed everything. 

A man is expected to last at least 45mins during sexual intercourse to be deemed "good on bed".  🛏️

This 45mins include switching positions like your life depends on it, oral sex and everything that crosses their mind during intercourse. 

A lady on her part, is expected to give blow job even if it means choking on it, turn 360° on bed to assume a particular position and do all sort of things just to be seen as a badass on bed. 

To bridge the duration gap, some men have resorted to the use of drugs, herbal medicine and abuse of unsubstantiated medicine just to impress a lady who won't care what happens to him after the whole act. 

The ladies on their part, bow to the demands and engage in acts they normally wouldn't do. But in order to be seen as "good in bed", she must keep up or her partner will look for somebody else.

Again, the fear of losing a partner due to sexual inability is real. 

I'll take drugs and last 10 hours just to satisfy my partner so she won't go for another man who lasts longer (probably aided by drugs or whatever)

I know of ladies who have lost their relationships, or whose partners regularly cheat because they're not "good in bed" or are unwilling to conform or engage in acts that will give them a pass on bed

Porn movies too, have created a false expectation during sex. 

People now expect their partners to be as good as the porn stars they watch. Failure to do that will bring problems. 


They forget that these porn stars engage in these acts with the aid of substances🍣 (possibly) and have access to the best possible medicare 🩺🩺when needed. 

We over here, will engage in these acts and when the problem arises, we run to go and disturb doctors in local or national Hospital without telling them we're the cause of our problems. 

Sex, as made by God, was strictly for procreation. Not as a sport where winners are given medals with applaud. 

Lives have been ruined. Destinies have been cut short through abuse of substances just to impress during sex. 

Nobody ever got a medal📦📦 for their sexual escapades.

Do what you can and leave the rest to God. 

Kufre Carter.


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