Why waiting matters: Understanding the emotional and spiritual risk of premarital sex

 

I recently read a story from a WhatsApp Christian story group where I belong the title of the story is "Sexmathicx" by opeyemi Akintunde and i was moved in my spirit to review the story and share some important lessons from it..

Here is a summary of the story. A girl of about 13 years old got caught up in sexual escapades This started as a result of a female house help who always come in with friends to watch p*n while this teenage girl peeped at them while both her parents where away, this made her inquisitive and she began to explore with guys in her school. She slept with the first guy in her class at 14 and before she finished secondary school she had already slept with 75 people both  teachers, I. T students, copers, uncles and even married men. She enjoyed every bit of it not knowing the damage she has caused herself and her God ordained destiny.

I know this may sound weird for some people but the truth is when you commune sexually with anyone, you become one with that person i.e 1+1 =1 . That is why Christian mentors advice you sleep with someone whom you have prayed courted and are spiritually convinced is your partner and are legally married to . 

No wonder the Bible says marriage is honourable in all and the bed undefiled. 

One may have legion of spirits working in and some waiting to manifest in them which are contacted via sex of 3-5 minutes pleasure.

Let me be explicit 

When you have sex with someone with 7 devil spirits or demons you have 7 of those spirits, when you move to another that has 21 demons you will have 28. So as  many you have sex with, you keep accumulating all kinds of demonic spirits they possess. 

Here Are some of the lessons I learned from this piece;

I realised that the devil will use you and make you use less: 

👆Firstly the STDs sexually transmitted diseases the person in question will contract

👉Secondly the spiritual implications like transference of spirits like failure delays, sickness, setbacks, broken marriages and relationships, lack of peace, delay and denial of opportunities, untimely death, incest, mastubation, beastality, fornication/adultery, spirit of stealing, anger etc

👆Thirdly there's a transference of abnormal traits and characters that belong to those sex partners to your innocent future children.

 

😩Another thing I learnt was some devil spirits will wait years before they begin to manifest why do you think some ppl die at certain age, or can't have children for years or can't get married, can't have good job/ life, some end up marrying the wrong person 

😲I also learnt that a parent's  past sexual experience can affect the children. That is when a partner has had several multiple sex and has acquired spirits when he impregnates his wife he automatically transfers the spirit to his unborn child likewise the woman,  a research in science says some traits in a woman's past sexual partners that has entered her DNA can actually be seen in the child born for her present partner. Seminal fluid of a previous sex partner are absorbed by a woman's immature eggs  which then influences the development of a future offspring.

According to the scripture in First Corinthians chapter 6: 16 that whoever is tied to a prostitute become like a prostitute. 

Scriptures for Prayers;

Psalm 31:2,  Isaiah 58:8, psalm 102:2,Rom 8:38, psalm 28:7, psalm 60:11

Here Are Some warfare prayers

40 PRAYER POINTS EXTRACTED FROM THE STORY

1. Ask for Mercy. Show me mercy Lord

2. Oh Lord baptize my life with your Fire and your power in the name of Jesus!"

3. Purging fire of God, pass through my life and chase out all Inhabitants of darkness in the name of Jesus."

4. Every blood covenant between me and any previous sexual partner, break by fire in Jesus name...

5. Every blood covenant with the first person I had sexual intercourse with, break by fire in Jesus name."

6. Spirit of past sexual partners living inside of me, exit by fire in the name of Jesus

7. Traces of the spirits of my parents past sexual partners inside of me, expire by fire, clear away by fire in the name of Jesus

8. Broom of fire sweep out/chase out every spirit buying and selling in me in the name of Jesus

9. Characters that are alien to me that I acquired from my sexual partners, be erased out of my DNA by fire

10. The DNA of my previous sexual partner that is in my DNA, blood of Jesus, wash it out, Fire of the Holy Ghost... burn it off in the name of Jesus

11. Demonic DNA that has flowed into my family DNA through sexual intercourse either by me, or by my parents, let that DNA be erased now in the name of Jesus

12. Demonic DNA that has flowed into my family or my lineage through my husband's sexual engagements, you that DNA be deleted from our blood line in Jesus name

13. Spirits that I have married as a result of my past sexual intercourse, burn to ashes by the Fire of the Holy ghost.

14. Every unconscious covenant that I have entered into with any idol or Spiritual entity as a result of sleeping with anyone. Be broken in the name of Jesus

15. Covenant of failure, Covenant of non-achievement, Covenant of Disappointment, Covenant of Stagnancy, and all types of evil covenants I have entered into as a result of past sexual engagements... break by fire in the mighty name of Jesus

16. Curses that I am struggling under as a result of my past sexual involvement with anyone, my Lord deliver me from this curse. I break free from this... I break free from the curse of failure at the edge of breakthrough, Curse of death and hell, Curse of disappointment, Curse of hatred...

17. Curse of death over my life, break in the name of Jesus! Spirit of the grave inside me, out by fire in Jesus name

18. I decree in the name of Jesus, you Spirit of the grave, out of my life in Jesus name.

19. Ancient sexual goddess holding on to the reins of my life, I call upon the sword of the Lord to cut off your hands off my life in the name of Jesus

20. Strangers of darkness living inside my body, that has made my body their home, Holy Ghost chase them and occupy my life with fire in the name of Jesus

21. Holy Ghost occupy my life with your fire in the name of Jesus

22. Sexual demons in the foundation of my life,come out and die in the name of Jesus

23. Evil spirits, demonic spirits that the spirit of sexual immorality has opened my life to, Holy Ghost fire send them packing from my life and utterly destroy them in the name of Jesus!

24. Marine powers that had made my body a host body for preying on other people's lives and destiny, release me and let me go by fire in the name of Jesus!

25. Holy Ghost kill every inordinate affection and satanic desire that tends towards immorality in the name of Jesus

26. Oh Lord destroy every seed of sexual immorality in me in the name of Jesus

27. Ask the Lord to destroy those inordinate affections and satanic sexual desires...call them by name...Lord, kill the urge for sexual immorality, kill the urge for lesbianism in me in Jesus name, Kill the urge for incest in me in Jesus name, kill the urge of sleeping with demons in me....

28. Oh Lord shut the windows and all entrances of my life against evil spirit in the name of Jesus

29. Every good thing I have lost as a result of past sexual engagement oh Lord of mercy, restore them back to me in the name of Jesus

30. Any problem that my husband or wife has brought into my life as a result of their past or present sexual involvement, Holy Ghost wash me clean and purify me in the name of Jesus

31. Pray that the Lord purifies your future spouse so they don't bring nonsense into your life. Pray that God will give them sense so they don't turn you into nonsense through your sexual intercourse with them

32. Any repercussion of my sexual encounter in the past still manifesting in their marriage, Holy Ghost destroy it in Jesus name

33. Oh Lord protect my spouse from engaging in sexual practices outside my marriage

34. Chains of sexual abuse from birth, break by fire in the name of Jesus

35. Chains of sexual addiction break by fire in the name of Jesus 

36. Evil dedication to any sexual idol, I renounce you by fire in the name of Jesus

37. I claim my complete deliverance from the Spirit of sexual immorality and sexual perversion in the name of Jesus

38. Lord let my eyes be delivered from lust 

39. Lord, let my thoughts and mind be delivered from lust

40. Oh Lord grant me grace to honor you with my body in the name of Jesus

Here's my POV; 

These evil spirits can enter into a man's life via the kind of books he reads, music he listens to, movie he watches and even from the words that proceeds from his mouth,not just sex alone as  Christian we must guide our eyes, ears and mouth. 

Let us not be like those believers who are plugged but not connected 2nd Tim 3:5.

Sex is the subject of discussion, condom can protect from having STDs but nothing can protect one from having spiritual problems transferred through sex.

Your body is the temple of God keep it holy and pure until you are ready to work down the aisle with your God given life partner.

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Thank you for reading.