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  Are You Really in Love or Just Attached? Love is one of the most powerful emotions we experience as humans. It brings joy, comfort, and connection. But sometimes, what we call “love” may actually be something else—attachment. Many people confuse the two, staying in relationships not because of genuine love, but because they are afraid of losing the comfort, security, or familiarity that comes with their partner. So, how can you tell the difference between real love and mere attachment? A. Love is Selfless, Attachment is Self-Centered Love is about giving without keeping score. When you love someone, their happiness matters as much as your own. You support their dreams, even when they don’t directly benefit you. Attachment, on the other hand, often focuses on what the other person can provide for you—security, attention, validation, or even financial stability. If your relationship feels more like “I need them” instead of “I value them,” it might be attachment. B. Love Encourages ...