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Break up Strengthens You.

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  I may not always be available for you,  I may not be that perfect soul you truly want, I may not have that shape, money, fame you want But I'm your Angel πŸ˜‡πŸ˜˜☺️ I'm your light 🚨 I'm your warm shoulder πŸ€— I'm your πŸ’•πŸ’• Here's my love note to All my Wonderful and amazing readers you have kept the fire πŸ”₯ πŸ”₯ πŸ”₯ on this blog burning  I can't LOVE y'all less 🀩☺️ Matters of TodayπŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡ Can Breaking up Strengthen A Relationship?? Over the years people break up from relationship for different reasons. It could be an overrated reason or underrated, however when people breakup from their relationship it's simply because they can nolonger keep up with issues arising from the relationship. Many a time I tell people that you don't leave a relationship to get it strengthened NO. You re leaving that relationship because something is wrong somewhere, and you aint cool with it. How then?πŸ™‹ will it strengthen you. If it's not working for you then it can...

The Process

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 Hey guys  I just storm one of my post on Facebook reels and it reads 3.2k views. πŸ’ Every genuinely efficient products that wants to stand the test of time must go through a period called PROCESS. πŸ₯° Here I want to say be proud of what you do. πŸ₯° The process may not look like the product,but the process is needed for the product.  πŸ‘ Don't only take pictures of your success alone take pictures of your failures. ♥️I mean write down your failure stories they will make up your success stories.  ❤️Keep a meticulous track of  the first ladder you climb.  πŸ˜As you keep climbing keep those memories it could just be someone's motivation. πŸ’Don't keep your fingers crossed when you are doing nothing with your dreams, vision or purpose. πŸ’•Your mind should be abreast of what you want to do, pursue it with every blood in your vein. 🎈The picture you see above is me when I was working as a daily worker in a warehouse. 😍I have sold different things, I'll share it in ano...

How To Excel In 2023

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  Hello hi   I warmly welcome you to this year, I would like to say that this is another opportunity, another time and another year to go round the sun forth and back. Also to add I won't forget to say you should look back at the previous year be happy for what you could achieve, be thankful to support systems that aided the achievement, be grateful you have another chance to do more this new year and be more intentional about what you want this season. In this post I'll be sharing some tips on how to make it through in 2023. Don't forget you can't keep doing same thing and experience a different result. You must do something different to get a different result.   Here are some Things To Take Note Of; πŸ’• Reflect, Retierate and Reintrospect;  These 3R's  are key as you walk into the year, take a short video of remembrance in your mind and personally access yourself, this will help you know which area you are  to focus your strength more on. ,πŸ’• Write do...

10 Things That Destroys Relationship

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  Facts have shown that when things are not properly done there's bound to be chaos. Number 8 will shock you. Relating with people has been man's most difficult challenge, staying with someone in a romantic relationship isn't as easy as it looks on social media where you see couples hold hands together, do Snapchat video, TikTok or even Instagram behind all of those parades on media there's more behind the scenes we don't see. Starting a relationship is a good thing, however if not meticulously handled it can be marred  by some little things.   In this post I'll be sharing little stuff that could destroy a love relationship.  One of the things that could destroy a relationship is holding grudges (resentment). Communication is man's greatest gift, where there's no communication there is problem.   Not giving space,live your life outside of your partner i.e have your own friends and spend time with them Not having separate hobbies. Nothing stops you from h...

How To Build A Healthy Self Esteem

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  Enormous facts and figures have shown that there are lot of factors that could result to low self esteem. When an individual feels good about themselves and who they are, they are said to have good self-esteem. Having healthy self-esteem is essential to living well and being a productive  member of society.  Low self-esteem not only affects an individual’s internal world, but their external actions as well, limiting their ambitions and choices in life. As Maslow’s “Hierarchy of Needs” defines it, self-esteem is as essential to living a good life as having good nutrition, a safe environment, and even love. Oftentimes, low self-esteem starts with negative or wrong self-image. Recognizing how either low self-esteem or negative self-image works within ourselves is often hard. Negative ideation can be habitual and therefore “normal” in an individual’s eyes. Self evaluation is key to assessing how selves and maintaining balanced self-esteem.         ...

How To Know Real πŸ’•πŸ’• Love

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  Over the years the term LOVE has been abuse in the sense that some persons just use it without being sincere to themselves and the person they claim they love. However here are some truth from Chris F. on how  to know if the one you love loves you back. I give KUDOs to him for this awesome piece it really captured my attention. Ensure you read, digest and drop your comments . When someone is in love with you; They NEVER commit an act that would risk losing you. They will never behave in ways to make you question your sanity or self worth. They accept you for you, but they know the difference between acceptance and abuse. Accepting abuse isn’t love. They’d rather tell you the truth and lose you to keep you with lies. If a problem arises in a group settling it won’t be addressed there, but in private with you two only. They have your back with others under most circumstances even if they don’t agree. They keep the relationship exciting with random gifts, day trips and fun acti...

Life's Biggest Lessons

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  Hey guys this is a notification that popped up my page while I was scrolling through, I loved it and decided to share, it was written by Gabby 🎈 Life doesn’t ever get better πŸ’• You can have the perfect job and can be making 500k a year and still not be happy. ❤️ Not everyone is your friend. πŸ’— Doing the wrong thing is easier than doing the right thing. 🌹 Never depend on anyone's opinions for your happiness. πŸ’– Life could be worse, appreciate that your alive.  πŸŽ‰ Perfect practice makes perfect. πŸ₯³ You are going to hit rock bottom eventually, you just have to learn how to climb back up. πŸ’ Don’t do everything solo, having good people by your side can be a big advantage. 🌺 Not everyone will agree with you and that's okay. πŸ‘ Agree to disagree, arguements aren’t worth anything. 🎈Don’t assume, if you don’t ask, you will never know anything. ♥️ No matter how smart you are or think you are, there is always something to be learned about in life. πŸ‘ Sometimes your first love won’...