10 Things That Destroys Relationship

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Facts have shown that when things are not properly done there's bound to be chaos. Number 8 will shock you.

Relating with people has been man's most difficult challenge, staying with someone in a romantic relationship isn't as easy as it looks on social media where you see couples hold hands together, do Snapchat video, TikTok or even Instagram behind all of those parades on media there's more behind the scenes we don't see.

Starting a relationship is a good thing, however if not meticulously handled it can be marred  by some little things.

  In this post I'll be sharing little stuff that could destroy a love relationship. 


  1. One of the things that could destroy a relationship is holding grudges (resentment).
  2. Communication is man's greatest gift, where there's no communication there is problem. 
  3.  Not giving space,live your life outside of your partner i.e have your own friends and spend time with them
  4. Not having separate hobbies. Nothing stops you from having a separate hobby other than your partner's
  5. Lack of boundaries. This should be the first thing in every relationship
  6. When the relationship is one sided. Any relationship that is one sided will suffer alot of crisis 
  7. Lies. Any foundation built on lies will stand but crash when the wind blows. 
  8. Lack of goals. Relationship should be built on certain goals and how to achieve them, don't live each day as it comes work your dreams out for that relationship
  9. Not having a common ground on certain things. 
  10. Being self-centered not having your partner's back.
Please don't forget to drop your comments in the comment section and tell me what you learnt from this post.

Enjoy the rest of your day.

I remain your humble sugargurl 

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