Break up Strengthens You.

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I may not always be available for you, 

I may not be that perfect soul you truly want,

I may not have that shape, money, fame you want

But I'm your Angel 😇😘☺️ I'm your light 🚨

I'm your warm shoulder 🤗 I'm your 💕💕

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Can Breaking up Strengthen A Relationship??

Over the years people break up from relationship for different reasons.

It could be an overrated reason or underrated, however when people breakup from their relationship it's simply because they can nolonger keep up with issues arising from the relationship.


Many a time I tell people that you don't leave a relationship to get it strengthened NO.


You re leaving that relationship because something is wrong somewhere, and you aint cool with it.


How then?🙋 will it strengthen you. If it's not working for you then it can't strengthen you.


Do you think relationship is like a method of farming that "when you leave the farm land for certain period of time, it regenerates it's lost nutrients and good for farming next season?? Absolutely No.


I cant dispute the fact that some people breakup and makeup and breakup and makeup again and then the cycles continues some eventually get married and some don't. 


The BIG question is why did you break up with this person in the first place? It means you guys had a HEADLOG ☺️ probably you had an issue you didn't talk about or didn't resolved.thats what led to the breakup.


Another beautiful QUESTION is what makes you think things will be better than it were before the break-up??❤️When you eventually come back?


So far, when your EX calls you for a reunion will you go back? Can you keep taking those messes? Is he/she ready to turn a new leaf? Are you willing to start on a fresh page?


Moreso, how are you SURE that the few days, months, years, or minutes of breakup has made the other person turn a leave people can get better and even worse .Don't get me wrong I'm not playing the 👿 devil's advocate here.


In a nutshell shell 🐚 break-up doesn't strengthen a relationship it strengthens You.


Here's the highlight. "Every failed relationship teaches a lesson and that lesson becomes your strength"💪💪💪.


When you come out of that relationship you can fully evaluate yourself, give yourself a knock on the head🤦 pat your back🙋 bite your fingers, or even give yourself a nice treat, 🍜🌮🌯🍟this all depends on what you went through in the relationship. 


KNOW THIS

❤️Mind you there are baggages from prior relationship.


 💝  Don't take  them to your next relationship.


 🐚Take time to heal , don't just jump into any harm you see.


😘Know what you want and take time to go for it.


🎁Have a checklist of what you want in a man/woman form spiritual to physical.


💓Stop jumping from fire to hot oil it pains my ❤️ heart .


🤜🤛 Set strong boundaries in your relationship it will help prevent alot of hurt.

  I remain your loyal lovable sugargurl, you can talk to me for free as regards any relationship, love and marriage matters.

I'm your warm shoulder... 💕 y'all






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