13 WAYS TO NAVIGATE THROUGH DIVORCE

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DON’T DO THIS IF YOU ARE GETTING AWAY FROM DIVORCE




      Divorce has risen from 35% to 55% in our society today.

 people who go through this phase find it difficult to put their lives together.

 After which, the aftermath of this phase is sometimes grievous plus it will also affect the kids in one area of their lives or the other( this is a fact).

 That is why this article will help you not to take certain decisions that will mal you or affect your kids. 

Getting away from  heart break or a divorce could be the most depressant moments.

However this write up is meant to give you some guidelines on what not to do  so as not to get sour or worse in the circumstances.

Plus navigating through a divorce can be the most traumatizing moment of that individual.

sometimes you experience some kinda foul scent of depression every once in while it isn’t by default its normal. 

Here are some scrutinized steps you need not to take else it will worsen the whole pot of soup sauce;


Avoid these for your quick recuperation


1🎯 Do not pick up a new habit such as smoking, drinking, keeping late nights etc


2🎯   Don’t get a tattoo and write the name of your ex on any part of your body.


3🎯   Don’t sell acquired possessions

4🎯   Don’t try to get solace immediately (see a therapist and heal first)

5 🎯   Don’t quit your job or passion

6 🎯   Don’t listen to heartbreak music( this won’t help in the forgiving process)


7 🎯    Don’t start attending single mix party ( do take your time)

8  🎯    Don’t change your wardrobe to a particular color/style of outfit.


9🎯     Don’t cut your hair(ladies) this won’t help you either

1 🎯  Don’t become a socially awkward person.


1    🎯 Don’t chase your strong buddies away.

    🎯   Don’t give attention to slyer/side talks

1 🎯   Don’t pierce any part of your body (say no to self inflict).


   Life is wrapped up with various vicissitudes else somethings would have been avoidable. 

There is life after divorce so live your life and make yourself happy in every way possible,

 Don’t talk or think yourself out of life.

 I hope you find this helpful, I will continually be your moral support. 


Don’t  be hesitant to drop your comments and questions in the suggestion box have a blissful week

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