Relationship And Compliments
All handsome dudes gather here let's have a heart to heart discussion.
There are things you won't learn in the classroom or get from book knowledge
I want you to read and internalize this post
First of...
when last did you give a genuine compliment to your bae ??
When last did you appreciate your Girlfriend?
OR
Do you think giving compliments is only a woman's thing??
2 Counsels I have for You
1) Normalize giving Compliments
Don't go into Marriage and become that Husband who can't compliment his wife even when there's a reason to, just because he's not used to it.
Don't be that brother who feels awkward giving compliments..
You'll need that skill in Marriage..
If you have F9 in that area, work on it, start with your friends, Male and female, your colleagues in the office,
"Nice Shoe"
"Wow, I love your Tie."
"Fine Hairstyle, what's it called?"
Marriage will not AUTOMATICALLY change what you refuse to change INTENTIONALLY.
COMPLIMENT her as she COMPLEMENTS you.
2) Normalize Expressing your Feelings.
Don't get married and join the association of Husbands who can't look their wife in the eye and say "I Love You Baby".
Men who can't articulate their emotional gyrations to their Wives verbally and cause her to vibrate in an euphoric ecstasy and emotional katakatabolism.
Men who can't say sweet things to the Women they married.
I beseech you therefore brethren, don't join that association.
Even if you should shy, shall you shy for your own Wife?
Kai... Some Men, see them in football viewing center shouting on top of their voice like Lions, talking about Messi and Ronaldo and declaring their undying support for their G.O.A.T..
Oya give them Mic to express their love for their W.I.F.E and see them start to stutter, their lion voice will reduce to a lambs voice, their subscription for verbal prowess will expire.
Some will now say "she already knows". When her name is not Noah, Oga she doesn't know. Tell Her.
As a Man, be able to use words of love to restrict your lady's airflow. They like it like that
(c) Musa Gift
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