short and long courtship which is preferable

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SHORT OR LONG TERM COURTSHIP WHICH IS BETTER

           Over the years studies have shown that a good and 
strong relationship is not decided by the number of years spent 
together but rather a lasting relationship is built on love and nothing but love. This topic has become a debatable fact, whether it is best to live in a long courtship or court short time before marriage. for the purpose of this blog and my esteemed viewers I personally did a questionnaire just to get peoples opinion on this, I don’t want to fetch you guys an half baked cake so from my personal reviews’ and judgments I was able to come up with these.

       Many a time, not all relationship that court long live to stay long, plus not all that breezes in and out ends terribly, this will lead me to say that some people court for  a long time in order to really know who they are with or better put what they want this is the philosophy of some, I want to know him/her better, I don’t want dark shades to reveal itself when  we are married, some will be like I want to understudy him/her what if he/she is not what they claim, do you know that previous hearts breaks can make you  think  this way? so for that matter you are very meticulous , you want someone who won’t dispose you after having the cookies, no room for betrayal drama, and for the gents no space for constant nagging, or excessive demands for material things I know these things… for this reasons and many more some  want to have a long term courtship they don’t want to marry an angel today and get to see a devil tomorrow is understandable.

         Nevertheless short time courtship could be amazing depending on the individuals who is involve, from the survey I took I realized that some persons don’t have the grace to wait or court for too long rather they prefer brief and quick courting and then they proceed to a life time commitment. people in this category believes in open mindedness and are ready for whatever comes afterwards, after all marriage is for better or worse, and the world is made up of imperfect people they are ready to contain whatever comes up anytime. To them, courting for a long time is more or less a waste of time, they feel you should just put the ring and enjoy every new discovery while time unfolds itself. they also believe people can hide their real identity even if you court them for one millennium, humans can sometimes be a hard nut to crack, so for them is best you just get your heart prepared for the unfathomable. Everyone has  a beast in them so said one of the correspondent, actually this is an amazing thing but it doesn’t work for everybody, choose what works for you don’t be a copy cat not in a relationship else you might end up buying a pig for a pork. 

       Finally on this note, short or long term relationship depends on the individuals involves there should be a crystal clear picture of what you want its not how far but how well so they say, be it long, semi-long or short term relationship the deal is that it should end well. thanks and I hope to see you guys on my page again.

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