Quitting

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Don't quit when you feel like quitting, do more when you don't feel like doing anything.


It is better to fail on your way to greatness than fail feeling demotivated.

 

I have learnt in life to fall forward not backward putting my strong foot in front, it works.



Few days ago I started feeling disinterested about everything, I mean everything from cooking, to cleaning, to working etc


I no longer want to read or write, hang around my friends, talk or even a meeting


Let me shock you I have a good paying job, though the economy in my country is terrible but I don't really feel it.


I stay alone and I take no responsibility for anyone, I sometimes send money to my mum I have no one I feed I only feed myself.


I believe in God 🙏 and take my fellowship seriously with him.


I give to the needy though not often. 


I have a good loving boyfriend who promises to spend the rest of his life with me. I love him though i still have doubts.


Then tell me what could be my reason for feeling like this?? The big question I have no answer to.


I have been reading a book '15 invaluable laws of power by John C. Maxwell' from this book I got something that kept me back on track (books has always been my consort story for another day).




Maxwell said, you can decide how you want to be, act and do things.


He added that the greatest limitations one can put on himself is self-imposed limitations'


 if you have the "  I can't mindset then you really can't but on the contrary if you have the " I can mindset then you can".


After I read most part of this book I just gave myself a pat on my back and said to myself  " dear self  "you  can" 


Again I thought to myself do you know how many people are waiting for you to rise so they could rise with you? Do you know how many lives across the globe you are touching?  Because usually I write and I have a blog


These inner questions set me back on my feet, I decided to pen it down and encourage someone.


Don't quit when you feel like quitting, do more when you don't feel like doing anything.


Many a time as we walk on our road of success the route ain't just smooth as imagined, distractions will set in, indiscipline in fact indiscipline and few others have been my major distraction.




But going forward I said baby gurl no more stoppage, no more going back to mediocrity, no more self pity because self pity can lead to self destruction.


I'm aware of whom I'm called to be, I'll no longer listen to the voice of limitations of distraction and of failure.


I said to myself if I must fail let me fail on my way to greatness. Not when I'm sleeping and feeling dejected or disinterested.


I know life hasn't really been fair with me especially growing up, but I put all of those emotional baggages aside and "I move" 


I listen to the small voice of victory inside of me voice of triumph and I arise.


Leave your comments in the comment section and do have a lovely week.


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