Finding True love ❣️❣️🌹❣️❣️

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There is no limit to the extent you can love...

  I believe in the seed of love which has been planted in every heart, every man/woman out there who has been in love or  was once in love, or is still in love needs a conscious steady reminder that it still exist...🥰🥰 

Though little debacle here and there may waive its ugly,😱😱 head but is in you.

However for many years, there is always a challenge of how no matter how many principles, precepts, facts and figures and program people are taught on this subject,📗 of love there seems to be missing a ingredients🧉🧉 that’s the question that propelled this write up.🖍️🖍️


So many a time we find it difficult to love...🌹🌹🌹

we have multiplied our past(hearts breaks,💘💘 sacrifices, frustrations, rejections and abuse) and reduced our values plus there’s this laconic resentment that has build an unsourmatable wall in our hearts, it look as if it can never be real.


Every once in while we get trapped by what we are been spoon fed with  what we read, watch and listen to, many attend seminars, conferences, retreats for answers to this questions that has raised so many eye brows.

I'm not saying is not good to attend intellectually inclined programmes but the truth be told, we still end up not getting what we want rather we get more entangled, disoriented and estranged in the world of 💕💕💕💕.

 Its sometimes hard for us to deal with... 

How to identify, define, understand and fully internalized the mystery key of true love.


Often time than none  we walk on eggshell trying to take each day as it comes, being blatantly meticulous not to hurt the other person even when you know things aren’t going according to patterns, no consensus, decent conversation for a healthy a relationships, you still find yourself being stuck with him/her. 

Walking in the blues 🏄🏄can be freaking infuriating;

 I have been in that shoe before so I know what am saying especially when the other person isn’t putting much effort as you are.


More so others would think testing the waters is just the best way to go about it, living a carefree life regardless of who gets hurts in the process of driving rough, not wanting to be caged so they say or committed in any way possible, they tell you no ways🚔

If I stand to be corrected love is not an exclusive club for the elite few who were born with it..

 Every individual has the capability to love and be loved if only we can recognized and cultivate it....like I said earlier it’s a seed just identify it and groom it.

The complex uncertain waters of 21ist century has flag off a world of socially awkward people, narcissist, snitches, love sociopath, religious and cultural clashes, moral and ethical compromises. 

If you are privilege to take a questionnaire, you would believe me when I say the world is really suffering from genuine love.

Lastly on this note I want you to pocket your fears, and be ready to roll up your sleeves get to the job of making it work, take your time, find that someone who you know deep down loves and admires you, do not...DO NOT trade that person for anything.

 Remember love is a verb not a noun 

It therefore means that love is an action word not a sleeping word, take action, fight for what you want don’t just fold your worries and tell me it isn’t gonna work, give it your last  best shot… and I promise you would thank me later.


   Your humble host💖💗💓



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