Virtue Based Relationship
VIRTUE
BASED RELATIONSHIP
In a world of stereotypes and sound beat, when we
speak of virtue is assumed we are hitting on an empty drum, the potency of
virtue in every relationship can’t be undermined. Moral excellence, the quality
of doing what is right and avoiding what is wrong this is virtue according to
the oxford English dictionary. virtue makes every respectful and meaningful
relationship possible, it helps us achieve our essentials in life which is being
the best of your kind, no one is like you even thou you are identical , you are
unique in a peculiar way. A misplacement of virtue can lead to misplacement of
priorities in our lives this is way virtue remain the bed rock of every genuine
relationship. Virtues entails, love, forgiveness, generosity, forbearance,
humility, gentleness and kindness. Keep in mind that the reason for every
relationship is to encourage, support and bring out the best in your partner.
The following will help you understand how far a relationship can go on the
will of virtue;
1. Two
patient people will have a harmonious relationship than two impatient people.
2. Two
forgiving people will have a sweet relationship than two unforgiving people.
3. Two
considerate people will have an outstanding relationship than two inconsiderate
people
4. Two
discipline people will have a better relationship than two undisciplined
couples
5. Two
faithful people will have an amazing relationship than two unfaithful people.
This is to say virtue based relationship
is what every couple who wanna stay together forever should crave for, truth be
told if you really wanna experience the apex of your relationship then go for
virtues, pay careful attention to it.
When we choose not to
build our relationships on the foundation of virtue, then we must have agreed
to delve into a relationship of selfishness, illegitimate wants, cravings, sham
and shackles of fancies, materialism and the list is endless. Believe you me
this will make you more estranged and disoriented in the world of imperfect
people.
Virtue based relationship is a
choice when you choose the former you grow in better understanding of each
other but when choose the latter it become a total sham, a waste of time. When
we decide to build our relationship on the ground of virtue it helps us become
the best version of ourselves and drive in us a passion to pursue our purpose. Remember
every relationship you get into is supposedly to be a plus to you, help you
grow better in every way possible it could be spiritual, physical,
intellectual, emotional etc.
A virtue based relationship is one that
requires unwavering commitment, tenacious discipline, and unbiased trust. A
relationship that is goal-oriented works in a particular pattern, it has its
own style… it doesn’t go the way others
go, doesn’t see or compare the way others will, it follow a meticulously
planned excellent routine working its growth daily, using right approaches.