Side Effect of The Media in A Relationship

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SIDE EFFECT OF SOCIAL MEDIA FORUM IN A RELATIONSHIP(pt 1)
If I know nothing else I know the powerful impact of the media to our every day live, it has the ability to arouse the human spirit either passively or actively, the media can either inspire people and bring out the best in them or discourage them, get them insecure, make people malicious in nature or if possible create a sphere of doubt in them, of course you know these forums they could inject fear in a person, it could be on any platforms like whatsapp, instagram, facebook and the list is endless.

I stand to say the media has done more harm than good to us as a people and to our striving relationships, it is often said that not all advises from social media group is worthwhile, if I stand to be corrected some experts just sit in the comforts of their homes and dish out advises that have not gone through intense scrutiny and you on the other hand when toss by the vicissitudes of relationship just click and start reading am not saying some of their write up isn’t  good but be meticulous  of what you let into your thought some of these moral supports tends to get us into unnecessary introspections.

Few weeks ago my sister in-law told me something  and she said that when you drive out with your husband and you arrived home but he is still in the car, go check him up who knows he might just be deleting all his charts and messages he sent to his side chick, this was one of the advise someone gave in the marriage forum she follows on instagram. Now with this kind of advice you’ll put yourself in unnecessary panic, plus it makes you suspicious of little moves and reactions taken by your spouse, this however can make you insecure in your relationship, and therefore seat as a manipulative tool to toy with your thought I will say it again not all good idea are Gods idea but all Gods idea are good idea.
The issue of taking your relationship to social media groups for discussion isn’t idle, is not the best option because what works for A may likely not work for B so why canvass your spouse, remember no relationship is perfect every man/woman has his /her own weakness, am not saying when he/she is an abuser you shouldn’t report them to the necessary authority, but when it comes to minor issues like he/she  is not giving you the attention you deserves or doesn’t place you first in their live you can create time to talk things over a date. plus when your relationship goes through intense struggle or it has become one sided is best you see a relationship expert if you can’t handle it all by yourself. Do you know? that taking your relationship catharsis to online forum can lead to camparism in the sense that you might wanna compare and contrast your relationship with someone else’s relationship story the effect of this can be disheartening because temperamentally or psychologically you are trying to change your spouse from who he/she is into something else you are doing a lot of harm to yourself and to your spouse. Another side effect of social media is that it can lead to covetousness, it’s high time you know this, that you don’t have some things now because you don’t need it, but do you know what a covetous spirit will do to you??it will make you hunger for what is not needful and then you might just get yourself into some mess. Also it could lead to imitation this is a direct copy of one’s act not being yourself or allow your relationship be itself in order to bring out the best in you.

More so, this has become an elaborate topic spoken on by so many renowned speakers, don’t wait to be spoon fed by anything you see on the internet instead read godly books on how to groom a godly relationship and if need be, visit a counselor. This is where I will draw the curtain today I hope you find this interesting, have a splendid day…

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