Xmas Note To Self

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XMAS NOTE TO SELF


Hi esteemed viewers!
Compliments of the season, I know its been a swell time this holiday trying to make booking for nice vacation places, making reservations for cozy hotels. You know one thing that amazes me about this season? is that almost everybody around the tends o do the same thing, like getting a new car, moving to a new apartment or refurbishing already existing one, people trying to meet with friends that  they seldom gets time to meet with, everyone getting a present for their loved ones including their enemies because that is what the holy scripture says, plus some people will wanna change their wardrobe reasons best know to them, others wanna try out new dishes, visit new place, experience a different weather from what they are used to but generally the weather worldwide is cold science will be in  best position to explicate this. In this piece I would like to share some of the things I told myself to do in this season of Christ birth celebration. I SAID TO MYSELF


1.    Don’t try to impress anyone: I clearly said to myself as I reflect on  this season, am not gonna impress anyone not my family and certainly not my friends either, you should do the same if haven calculated the cost of you vacation, visits to great places will affect your  financial budget,, why not cut cost or let it slide! instead of trying to impress a friend or put on an appearance that is not worth it just give it up stay  at home eat your favorite meal and have fun. You could have fun within your region/state where you live you mustn’t travel to spend money, plus if you think and deem it necessary and financially capable you can go have your fun even if is in mars or Venus. As for me am just going to be home welcome some group of friends and colleague who would come visit me.

2.    Settle all grievances you have with anyone: A great man once said “to err is human to forgive is divine” therefore we live in a world of imperfect people they also tend to do things imperfectly. It hurts yes! I know but why not find a place in your heart to say, I let go I no longer want to be emotionally shaken  because of this person, no cause for mental anxiety anymore. Call this person and say I have forgiven you, I give up whatsoever debt you owe me.


3.    Get a present for someone: There’s a slang in my country that says ”nothing is too small and nothing is too big” absolutely when it looks good and feels good then it could be a gift present, it could be a used clothe, electrical gadgets, kitchen utensils, phones, books even a laptop, you might just wanna get something new that’s totally fine! Just extend a hand to a friend, a neighbor, a family member. plus if you have nothing to give, wait!!!!! who says you can’t give your word? Yes call, text, email someone and say THANK YOU” thank you for being my wife/husband, thank you for being my co-worker, thank you for being my mom/dad, thank you for putting me in a tight corner that brought out the best in me, thank you for being my boyfriend/girlfriend, thank the owner of your apartment/house, thank your boss. And above all thank the one who sees, hears and knows all (God).

4.    Do what will make you happy: you are the only one who can view yourself in a better mirror, forget about the pain, hurts, guilt etc you went through in the year 2019,just keep hope alive, keep faith alive, just keep keeping, visit a place that will make you happy and add to your horizon/residual knowledge, eat what you wanna eat and can afford, you could read a book, visit an orphanage home, visit those in the prison, attend a party, watch your favorite T.V show, buy car, a house, dress, handbag, name it!! Accessories. Be good.


        These where the stuffs I told myself am gonna be doing this period, I forgive the people who tread my heart with a fire like thread, I have got no time to please anyone all I do is what is right, I have plans to get presents especially books for my friends I have given some gifts already and I will give more, I told myself am gonna get my nails and my lashes done,! Don’t worry I will post the pictures here.

My advice to everyone on this platform is to be real, be good, be calm..do what works for you that wont hurt you or anyone around you have a bountiful celebration and don’t forget to send my gift too am waiting!!!!!

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