HEART AND SOUL PANACEA

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soul's panacea

  
    I see a growing image of starved generations with a fascinating concoction of victimization, betrayal, hurts, guilt that is patterned in folded fears of ‘’that’s how the world has turn out to be’’ situations has defined and decided our fate instead of us to decide/define situations. I have heard stories of  separations, abusers, pathological issues, emotional predators, parasitic relationship and my ears begins to drip, while my brows raised wondering why after flexible technologies and materials made available people still get estranged, entangle, perplex, bitter and batter in their relationships.

      However, few subject in life ignite as much passion and longing within us as our desire for love, our interest in sex and our hope for long lasting relationships stretches. Regardless of our race, background, values, intelligence or experiences, we all long to be loved. Every person on planet earth craves to be cherished and adored.

    More so, every human is a relational being.  We were made to love and be love; we all crave the intimacy, acceptance, security and significance that flow when we bond in mind, heart, and body with a member of the opposite sex.

    In addition, you would agree with me that even our everyday songs, poetry, movies etc centers on love, sex and sometimes on good relationship. Unfortunately most persons grew up with the wrong notions of love, because it was poorly modeled, some of us grew up in a love stricken environment where we see our parents duel over little things, get separated and most likely get divorced leaving us emotional estranged. As we grow we yearn for this love, we get scared of the pain it brings, the fear of rejection disappointment, the fear of the pain it might bring etc.

     The big issue here is no, no one ever gave us guidance or counsels regarding these things (love, sex and lasting relationship), most persons learnt what it takes to love from our teachers, friends, books, our culture, from our TV , from sources that are likely dysfunctional. There is a clearcutness that even with our idea of love and sex we still cant make a solid sweet relationship, the answer is why? Why is it difficult to meet the right people, why can’t we stay in long term relationship, why can’t we be love just the we way love our partner, why the communication gap, why financial issues, why is there insecurity and trust issues, why the pressure?? these and many more questions I would be waiting  to answer, responses that will not only build but stabilize a long lasting love relationship free from fear, pain, hurts, rejections and disappointment is what I promise  by his grace to deliver to you.     I remain your humble relationship couch 24/7 in this year 2020 as it progresses.

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