Distance Is No Barrier

-

Distance means so little when someone means so much.– Tom McNeal

A long distance relationship is an intimate relationship between partners who are geographically separated and lack physical contact.
Being in a relationship requires effort and trust but being in a long distance relationship ( LDR) requires more effort, trust and commitment. If you are not careful LDR will become virtually impossible and hard for both partners. Communication is important in a relationship but its importance in a LDR cannot be over emphasized . Listed below are dos and don'ts of a long distance relationship

Do not bore your partner

The last thing you want to do is to bore your partner, like we earlier mentioned communication is very important in fact the importance can not be over emphasized but been on your partners neck is not advisable. Yes, in LDR you will feel lonely so just find a balance and ensure the quality of your conversation so you won't over communicate and bore your partner.

Plan surprise visits and package

Paying your partner a surprise visit or package is one tool you can use to keep your relationship active . We all love surprises so a surprise visit or package from a loved one you 've not seen in a long time will go a long way and will pass the 'I miss you and I'm thinking of you right now message more' especially when it's a gift.

Don't hide how you feel

Relationships grows when there are healthy boundaries. It is not wrong to tell your partner what you like or what you don't like, perhaps your partner has the habit of video calling without prior notification and you don't like it , tell him in a lovely manner, express yourself.

Make future plans together

You need to make plans to spend time together cause you are not in each other's day to day lives that is physical lives and also making future plans together with your partner especially if the LDR is temporary ( that is your partner will be back in the city anytime soon) will help in making good memories and it wipe the maybe ' he/she is not really into me mindset' .


Don't involve a third party private things in your relationship

It only indicate one thing lack of trust , it means you don't trust your partner enough to believe whatever they told you, even if the third party tells you something do well by asking your partner , do not jump into conclusion.

You can try sexting

Though it may not come easy or natural explaining how you feel or what you want to your partner but a romance novel or past sexual experience is an easy way into dirty talk with your partner or live action using video call all these will spice up the relationship and make things less awkward when you see.

A long distance relationship is hard but not impossible with efforts from both partners. In many ways, the art of love is largely the art of persistence. – Albert Ellis



Popular posts from this blog

10 Facts About Men

-
Image
   10 Mind-blowing psychological fact about men  Hello fams, so here are some facts about men I know you don't know,  number 9 will blow your mind up, read and don't forget to drop your comment. After sex, Men want to sleep and women want to talk. Men express their strongest feelings through the act of making love. According to a survey, men can listen to their male friends for ages, but they can only listen to their girlfriend or wife for six minutes. Most men love women with thicker and longer hair. According to Psychological facts of the male study, Male wearing shirts look more attractive than the ones wearing t-shirts. Men hate asking for help most of the time and will avoid talking any help until they feel they can’t do it by themselves. Men lie twice as often as women. Men don’t like comparison. They hate if any female will compare them to other males. Men are physically strong but emotionally weak compared to Women. Unfaithful men have lower IQs. ~Mukul Chauh...
Read more

Relationship And Compliments

-
Image
All handsome dudes gather here let's have a heart to heart discussion. There are things you won't learn in the classroom or get from book knowledge I want you to read and internalize this post First of...  when last did you give a genuine compliment to your bae ?? When last did you appreciate your Girlfriend?  OR  Do you think giving compliments is only a woman's thing?? 2 Counsels I have for You 1) Normalize giving Compliments Don't go into Marriage and become that Husband who can't compliment his wife even when there's a reason to, just because he's not used to it. Don't be that brother who feels awkward giving compliments..  You'll need that skill in Marriage.. If you have  F9 in that area, work on it, start with your friends, Male and female, your colleagues in the office, "Nice Shoe"  "Wow, I love your Tie." "Fine Hairstyle, what's it called?" Marriage will not AUTOMATICALLY change what you refuse to change INTE...
Read more

Dreams About Spouse

-
Image
 Dreams About Spouse🧑‍🤝‍🧑🧑‍🤝‍🧑   If marriage is for better for good and till death do us part!! How then do we ensure we don't get entangled with the wrong spouse? Over the years I have watched my mum counsel people on how to,who to, and when to date/court/marry. Recently in my research I realized that the quest is still on  How then with all these counsels, prayers, background checks etc. People still get it wrong in marriage. I have seen many a time where intended couples Attend marriage classes, counselling sections, relationship seminars, people management training etc the list is unending. So as not to miss out in God's ordained plan for their marital life. Some persons with all their high level of meticulousness still get it wrong in marriage. I then I asked myself what could be the caused Of this whole marriage hullabaloo? And something tells me the answer isn't Farfetch. The big question is what do you do after the background checks of your supposed spouse? ...
Read more