Your voice

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I’ll volunteer to be your VOICE today, but when you’re done reading this article you must make up your mind to be your own VOICE and decide everything  that happens to you on a daily basis.

 The past is history, the present is your decision making mechanism which will eventually turn up a light 🕯️🕯️ to your future…read and digest this article. Sugargurl.blogspot.com

All my life I have never been abused, But my friend’s mom was. Though she didn’t tell me everything that happened to her, or the gravity of her emotional issues, But over the years I have come to  imagine everything that happened to her from her look to her communication gap with people, this however truncated her relationship with people from her childhood to adult life. She lived a traumatized life. The life of guilt, hurt, pain  self pity and frustration. Now as a feminist activist. I decided to take the burden on myself and imagine some over hidden stories. Shouldn’t tell me. I am very active engaging a girl child interacting with them trying to help them heal because I know what it feels to be hurt I mean I never enjoyed the bond of a mother to her child, my mom was always in a separate world order than ours. 

Most of these women get estranged all their days on earth they hardly live out their dreams... 

 My mom was abused all her life even after she left those abusive and inhumane relationships she made mistakes she couldn’t erase this left her with self pity(self destruction) which is the highest form of abuse, She was traumatized. 

There are certain things she doesn’t do, because she lives in a world of self pity. She   doesn’t like men around her. She had several men around her always indecisive. She had indecision problem and then there are  colors She doesn’t like to wear, some outfit she wouldn’t wear, places she wouldn’t go, She doesn’t just want to look good, feel good, feel happy.

 She lived in regret and guilt and self pity and feel she should kill herself and feel she shares world’s largest burden, feel she’s wrong on the planet or the world has wronged her. And that is the life she lived. 

This piece is just a preamble to what other women in the world are faced with, that is why I am so passionate. Helping women, ladies and girl child.  And then I know I  have  a vision I have passion for women in the world when it comes to sexual abuse, rape, degradation, hurt all these are life threatening, psychologically declining issues which is spread all over the continents of the world.

   I just want to stand in the gap for that lady. I want to help you in every possible way, I want you to  have someone you can  love,

 you can still live your life, cloth your wounds and wear  a bullet proof appearance 

You can still be bold and be heard

Achieve your beautiful dreams. Have that amazing relationship you so admire…

I’m your VOICE.

Sugargurl.blogspot.com

Location: Lairg IV27 4HL, UK

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