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 *THE VENOM OF SELFISHNESS IN A RELATIONSHIP* 

Hello great minds 😊😊

I'm glad we made it to a new year.

I saw this post on a group and had the permission to share so read, digest and send in your take on this...

A lot of people are married, but single. You think you are married to someone, but the person is not even married to you emotionally. You may be living under the same roof but far apart emotionally.

I feel like we need to talk about how damaged a lot of us are. How materialistic we have become. How self-obsessed we are as a people. How about how selfish?

"I deserve the best", yes, you do. But while you deserve the best, the person you want the best from, is he/she getting the best as well from you?

Our generation is just too selfish. It is always about you. You want someone to love you and accept you, but you are a bag of negativity and emotional liability. You are unstable.

You never look inside.

You never tell yourself the truth. You are always right, they are always wrong. You focus on the injuries they caused you without knowing how many injuries you have caused them.

Want people to change for you, but you are not willing to change for them in return.

So many expectations without reciprocation... 

This is one major virus killing our modern relationships.

This post is #copied#

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