TWO WIVES

 The books you read and the seminars you attended before you got weded go back to those books and re-read them, it's a way of rejuvenating your marriage values

There are a lot of good characters we can emulate from the media but be careful because there are  sheep in wolf's clothing, feigning, leaving or putting up a facade just to taunt or spite the other person/couple

Some of the stories ain't real some persons just cook up things from the blues inorder to feel among.

🖍️My candid advice remains do what works for you, don't be deceived or pressured by anyone

🧍You ain't in competition with anyone but #yourself, daily equip yourself to what you wanna see instead of putting up an artificial image in your relationship/marriage

🎯 Consciously build your marriage and identity what works for you.

👉Read this simple illustration 

🎯Get the moral

*TWO WIVES CHATTING IN THE OFFICE :* 

 *Wife 1:* I had a fine evening, how was yours?

 *Wife 2* : It was a disaster. My husband came home, ate his dinner in 3 mins and fell asleep in 2 mins. How was yours?

 *Wife 1* : Oh mine was amazing ! My husband came home and took me out for a romantic dinner. After dinner we walked for an hour. When we came home he lit the candles around the house. It was like a fairy tale !

At the same time, their husbands are talking at work.

 *Husband 1:* How was your evening?

 *Husband 2:* Great. I came home, dinner was on the table, I ate and fell asleep. What about you ?

 *Husband 1:* It was horrible. I came home, there was no dinner, they cut the electricity because I forgot to pay the bill; so I took her out for dinner which was so expensive that I didn't have any money left for a taxi. We walked home, which took an hour and when we got home I remembered there was no electricity so I had to light candles all over the house !!!!!!

 *MORALS* ; be careful, not to be deceived by others. You may end up destroying your marriage. Those social media pictures may not be the true situation.