No More Heart ❤️ Break

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 Marriage is an institution without graduation👰🤵


God has ordained marriage from the beginning of creation


Then why do we have cases of divorce and heartbreaks and broken homes?


It's because the devil knows that two are better than one because they make good rewards


Therefore one will chase a thousand and two ten thousand.


For this course the devil is like a roaring lion seeking for homes and marriages and relationship even friendship  to destroy.


How do you curb this or not be a victim of a broken / failed marriage?


🎯 Know your purpose: I read a book a purpose driven life by a great man.


 listen Dear single it's your purpose that will determine who you settle with, you should have someone who is willing to help you ride on your visions and purpose. You can't keep saying YES to every 'duke and Harry that comes your way'  


Infact have a strong Emotional intelligence so as to know when to say a YES and when to say a NO


You don't discover purpose after marriage you do before marriage i.e when you are single


🎯 Get Informed: Until you are well informed don't sign the dotted line because marriage isn't a destination it's a journey into God's plan for you. Information is at your finger tips, in this era of internet no edge should be left blunt.


🎯 Change your mindset: And we behold like in a mirror we are being changed from glory to glory i.e our mental transformation comes from renewal of our mind. I say this unapologetically that you can't rise above your thinking level.

Dear singles

👉 Get rid of broken home experiences you had while growing up


 👉stop the transference of trauma and guilt you have for yourself or others grow through them and become your best self.


👉 Don't emulate negative habit from parents/friends

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🎯Build a solid character: Character is everything the fruit of the spirit has name it;  joy, love, patience, meekness etc.


 When you have a strength of character when the pressure of marriage hits you it's your bank of character that will sustain you.

I hope you find this 👆 helpful

  Yourgurl.

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