SMART AND SLAY

 

So today I was telling my sister of how I joined a group for like 2 years now I have been an ardent follower in that group.

This is what spurred this post

 It's actually a group Called the Balanced spinster.

 I love ladies who are into lots of things i.e 

 Smart and slay

You slay with your intellect not with your body, what's your value guage, what's your worth, aside your portfolio what other things can you do?

Yeah some of you will say jack of all trades master of none.

That's not the point here

 In this country I must  commend "them ladies" 

I was privilege to meet ladies who are into a lot.

Omo mehn Nigerian gurls are hustlers from the womb.

I mean it when I say this, before now I told myself that I was into alot because I'm a language tutor in a school, a blogger, graphics designer, a singer, social media manager, photo and video editor .

 I just felt I didn't have a focus...

But the big idea is having multiple streams of income, instead of the other way round

I felt I was too different from my mates because of my Jobs, hmmmm

Until the group admin in this group asked us to introduce ourselves and what we do/ occupation

Omoh come and see ladies who are multitasking, multi working and multi earning.

My name is...... I'm a banker, a baker, event planner and delivers groceries I live in Lagos.

My name is..... I sell kunu, bons, I sew I'm into affiliate marketing and I'm a student from Jos.

My name is.... I'm a fashion designer, I'm into make up, I tie head gear, I do interior design I'm a medical student.

My is .... I'm a student, a social media strategist, I cook, I run market errands for working class, I make and sew

The list got to a 100 + unending

So I met a lot of them and most of these ladies are singles that is unmarried.

 Instead of you as a single lady to try to compete with married folks, or being seductive, or chasing shadows, spiting friends with deception hanty get a skill weda digital or manual..

Stop using basket to fetch water in your relationship, if it isn't working let the ship wreck and moving on with your life(Discussion for another day)

Don't lay eggs where there are no hen to hatch it.

It's because you have just one job that is why you have time to call someone for 10 times even when he isn't picking up you keep trying.

You just got into a relationship you are already bulging the dude with your family historics, you are always with him. Never giving him breathing space.

 You had a life before the dude came right??

Get busy sister and give him time to miss you

It's because you are idle that's why you are thinking of who to seduce or whose husband is next, or who to steal from.

Learn a skill and Cash out with it (make money from it). I know what I'm saying oh 

When you are too busy getting orders from clients, improving your  online skills, writing an  ebook or trying to publish a content nothing will swerve u off ur feet...

Dear single Ladies

 All of these  ladies I just mentioned are singles yes they are singles.

 You achieve more as a single lady maybe you haven't been told before but get this from me it's candid yes . 

You go far when the burden is light. No extra handbags you know what I mean right??? That is in your career, goals, visions etc

I met this lady on the group she is a Student who makes peanut and supplies to other states she makes bons, she hand picks beans and package them to be sold. 

Tell me is she the only peanut seller that they have to contact her from other states?? No she is good and has carved a path way for herself. 

Stop the competition and imagine extra things you can achieve while you await the bone of your bones.

Strive to be more add a digital skills that you can use to promote what you sell online

Some ladies doesn't know how to do certain things online, ask google, answers  are at your finger 🤞 tips 

In my next post I'll be sharing things you can do before marriage. 

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