How To Handle Disappoinment

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There have been so many controversies as to handling disappoinment from friends, spouse and even family members.


Sometimes life in itself is enough disappointment for us, always preparing for what will never be.


 I wonder how people just betray their friends and still feel okay about it.


Anyways to err is human to forgive is divine.


Will you  agree with the saying " keep your friends close and your enemy closer?  I don't flow with this though.


However in this post I'll be sharing some thoughts from people on how they handle disappoinment or heartbreak form the people they love so much.

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Here are some thoughts from people...



🎯  I forgive easily but won't just forget.


🎯 And so, when I notice a negative energy, I will ignore and avoid the person 360°... I'll sure tell the person I'm hurt... But heh, I will avoid the intimacy.


🎯 Forgiveness doesn't mean acceptance... 


🎯 We should forgive, because God forgave us and because unforgiveness is a sin.. Also because of our peace of mind... But accepting the person back to our space should be a matter of carefulness.


🎯 For instance... Miss A poison Miss B.. God should Miss B mercy and she didn't die.... It will be foolish of Miss B to still accept Miss A into are intimate Space and eat from her. Yes, she must forgive her.. But eating her food again is foolishness.

So let's know what we allow into our private space... Some people deserve to sit outside the veranda, not your parlor.


🎯 I'll tell the person pump and clear. Forgive her but never ever keep her close again. Thank God I'm the kind that says my mind


Once I've told the person, I'll avoid the person like a plague. I've forgiven her oh but that close friendship will never be there anymore

🎯Me, I will confront you. If I am very sure you did it.

Am not one to keep a hurt in my heart.


🎯 I tell you how unhappy I am about it, then forgive and forget it.

With God's help it's that easy for me but just know that I will no longer trust you.



🎯 For me bad attitude can lead to disappointment like the following:

Laziness

Dirty

Lack of respect

Refusing to improve n learn new tins

Narcissus

Cheating

Comparing with ur ex's

Zero in kitchen

Zero in bed

Zero in dress sense

Zero in thinking faculty

Zero in wisdom

Zero in prayers


❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️I hope you enjoy this post?

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