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 World international women's day The world is incomplete without women this is not a poised from the feminist movement but a fact which stands to say women are the bearer of life, whether you like it or yes. The world today has taken a great turn because women decided to take up responsibilities meant for male filled up areas such as politics, finances, medicines, inventories, CEO of major companies to mention but a few. Gone are the days when women are relegated to marriage, child bearing, baby sitting, home Manager and house wife. I am not saying a woman should not have kids or be married but my motion is the notion of seeing women as a weaker vessels should be an amnasia in our minds. However, women should not be seen as or treated like trash that is being a punch bag of some psykadelic dude, their hearts should not be a dumping ground for broken bottles, their feelings should not be treated like shadows in the wind or a piosious plague.women have potential and they breed potent...

 The Four emotions that Rules Our Life.    Our lives has gone beyond just feeling it up like a piggy bank like  an emty container, therefore the need to understand our intelligent quotient. However the stuff of which an individual is made of can not be overflogged from our relationship with people, our business relationship to how we react to things. Here are some explication on this write up IQ  ,  EQ  ,  SQ  ,  AQ According to psychologists, there are four types of intelligence:  1) Intelligence Quotient (IQ) 2) Emotional  Quotient (EQ) 3) Social Quotient (SQ) 4) Adversity Quotient (AQ) 1. Intelligence Quotient (IQ): this is the measure of your comprehension ability", solve maths; memorize things and recall subject matters. 2. Emotional Quotient (EQ): this is the measure of your ability to maintain peace with others; keep to time; be responsible; be honest; respect boundaries; be humble, genuine and considerate. 3. Social Quo...

Distance means so little when someone means so much.– Tom McNeal A long distance relationship is an intimate relationship between partners who are geographically separated and lack physical contact. Being in a relationship requires effort and trust but being in a long distance relationship ( LDR) requires more effort, trust and commitment. If you are not careful LDR will become virtually impossible and hard for both partners. Communication is important in a relationship but its importance in a LDR cannot be over emphasized . Listed below are dos and don'ts of a long distance relationship Do not bore your partner The last thing you want to do is to bore your partner, like we earlier mentioned communication is very important in fact the importance can not be over emphasized but been on your partners neck is not advisable. Yes, in LDR you will feel lonely so just find a balance and ensure the quality of your conversation so you won't over communicate and bore you...

 Hello great people hope your weekend is going well enough? sorry its been a while, how have you guys been doing! this is a relationship note to self!!!  A relationship without quarrels and misunderstanding is a relationship full of lies and deceit, how true? Relationship dont need a cute face or a lovely voice it just needs a good heart .this is absolutely correct!!! Be meticulous who you date some people are looking for help not love!! The greatest gift every relationships needs is not gold or diamond is COMMITMENT.  A fulfilled marriage is a product of two good forgivers... Don't get mad at people when they tell you the truth you might push them to live a life of pretence Don't live in oblivion of yourself be real and be you. Live to fly, live to swim but dont live in pain and bitterness...                                 Have a blissful weekend and enjoy the days ahead....

Love world Hello great viewers!      I guess you are having fun considering the fact some persons are still hallucinating from the euphoria of valentines, many were disappointed because expectations were cut off, he didn’t propose, she didn’t call or send a gift and so many other reasons why people feel its time I end it! bla bla bla, any ways val is over now. so what next? am gonna be sharing little tips on what to do after val... Also i would like to announce to you that   I won’t be sharing story   003 on harmful tradition as a major cause of sexual violence reasons being that this week is a week of love, we would be taking a break from the pub on sexual violence and be looking at Love…     Am so sorry this post is coming late, have got little issue with my sever, have been trying to put things in place, that not with standing, i express  my sincere apology... thanks and enj...

Sexual violence 002 Hello great people! Hope you are having a good week? Prior to last week’s publication I explicitly shared some nitty-gritty on sexual violence, ranging from its meaning to its causes, to effects, and to its types and people who are perpetrate this act. Am glad to announce to you that I will be sharing more stories on sexual violence. Today I would be discussing or sharing stories of   some harmful traditions as a cause of sexual violence in this pub just like I promised you, get your eyes glued and your mind focus don’t go anywhere until you are done reading thise stories. These are of real life situation stories… persons still hale and healthy but their names will be withheld for confidential reasons. I would be narrating this story as a first person narrator. permissions have been taken and granted and they gave me a go ahead to share their stories on this platform. This is the first story on how harmful traditions can be a major cause ...

Sexual violence 001 Sexual violence is an issue that is under reported and highly stigmatized in all society. According to online.rainn.com sexual violence is an act or attempt to obtain a sexual act by violence or coercion, it could also be an act to traffic a person or directed against a person’s sexuality. Sexual violence has become   a ravaging crime that if I have my way I would say the punishment should be life imprisonment with starvation plus death by hanging I don’t think this is too much, sexual violence cuts across rape, incest, intimate partner sexual violence, drug facilitated sexual assault, assaults of men and boys, child sexual abuse( this is just the height, I have heard, read, seen stories of children been abused by their uncles, fathers, step-relatives, neighbors I think this is rampant in this part of the world like its becoming alarming to see kids go through severe pain just because of the beast in a man). Sexual violence has led to so many tra...