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15 Principle For Women In Marriage

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   I have a land and my husband is not happy what should I do? I'm a high tech woman and I find it difficult to please my husband he wants me to quit the job, really?? I have a multiple streams of income and my husband's family aren't cool with it. These and many more are things women go through in marriages. So I was perusing over proverbs 31, and I got answers to all of these issues and believe you me they are good answers from the holy scriptures. You won't believe what I saw from this  scripture🤔🤔🤔 The proverb 31 WOMAN is a woman who;👇👇👇👇 🎯 Who invest and save for the future because she sells to people, she is a value added person so people pay her for her good jobs.  ðŸŽ¯She sees a land and buys it, who says it's wrong for women to own landed properties 🎯She owes a garden and tends it, everything mustn't be gotten from the market with some having chemicalize effect on your system. Grow vegies in your house. 🎯She  is a seamstress, can make clothes, i...

Rules For Singles

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  10 Rules For Singles Here are 10 golden rules I scripted for young folks number 6 will get you marveled, enjoy this piece and don't forget to drop your comments and questions.🤔🤔 💦  Never think marriage is a means to an end, marriage will not solve your financial struggle 💦  Avoid friends who are parasitic in nature, always receiving and never adding to your life  either spiritually, emotionally or financially. 💦 Be polite to all because King 👑👑 makers ain't king themselves 💦  Not every job is meant for you no matter the pay💰💰, know what you can do and go for it 💦  Do not undermine your outlook🥻👔 a lot depends on it. Dress well, classic and smart 💦  Prepare before and🧔👰 marriage and continue to maintain good marriage principles while married, I say this because every marriage needs maintenance just like car maintenance. 💦 Being an employee won't make you rich, that is, a salary earner can't live above his/her income, right investment,...

How To Handle Disappoinment

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   There have been so many controversies as to handling disappoinment from friends, spouse and even family members. Sometimes life in itself is enough disappointment for us, always preparing for what will never be.  I wonder how people just betray their friends and still feel okay about it. Anyways to err is human to forgive is divine. Will you  agree with the saying " keep your friends close and your enemy closer?  I don't flow with this though. However in this post I'll be sharing some thoughts from people on how they handle disappoinment or heartbreak form the people they love so much. ❤️🧡🧡❤️🧡🧡❤️🧡🧡 Here are some thoughts from people... 🎯  I forgive easily but won't just forget. 🎯 And so, when I notice a negative energy, I will ignore and avoid the person 360°... I'll sure tell the person I'm hurt... But heh, I will avoid the intimacy. 🎯 Forgiveness doesn't mean acceptance...  🎯 We should forgive, because God forgave us and because unforgiv...

Relationship And Compliments

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All handsome dudes gather here let's have a heart to heart discussion. There are things you won't learn in the classroom or get from book knowledge I want you to read and internalize this post First of...  when last did you give a genuine compliment to your bae ?? When last did you appreciate your Girlfriend?  OR  Do you think giving compliments is only a woman's thing?? 2 Counsels I have for You 1) Normalize giving Compliments Don't go into Marriage and become that Husband who can't compliment his wife even when there's a reason to, just because he's not used to it. Don't be that brother who feels awkward giving compliments..  You'll need that skill in Marriage.. If you have  F9 in that area, work on it, start with your friends, Male and female, your colleagues in the office, "Nice Shoe"  "Wow, I love your Tie." "Fine Hairstyle, what's it called?" Marriage will not AUTOMATICALLY change what you refuse to change INTE...

25 Jobs For Singles

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  Hello beautiful ❤️ people  I promised last week to share some business ideas or skills you can learn/ earn from while waiting.  After a little research i found out some profitable things single ladies/ dudes can engage in before and even after marriage However these are not all there is but just a few I think will be profitable whether as sideline, additional or a main hustle Below are the business ideas I critically researched on;  1. Digital skills 2. Data Analyst 3. Video editing 4.Animation maker 4. Running Errands 5. House Chores 6. Baking ; cakes and small chops 7.Interior Designer  8. Making of Dresses 9. Hair styling 10. Digital marketing 11. Content Creation 12. Finance Analyst 13. Media manager 14. Copy writing 15. Selling diced vegetables like carrots, cabbage, greens etc 16. Cleaning of offices/houses 17. Network marketing genuine ones 18. Facial make-up 19. Delivery chef  20. Dispatcher 21. Photo editing/photography 22. Cleaning of Toilet. 2...

SMART AND SLAY

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  So today I was telling my sister of how I joined a group for like 2 years now I have been an ardent follower in that group. This is what spurred this post  It's actually a group Called the Balanced spinster.  I love ladies who are into lots of things i.e   Smart and slay You slay with your intellect not with your body, what's your value guage, what's your worth, aside your portfolio what other things can you do? Yeah some of you will say jack of all trades master of none. That's not the point here  In this country I must  commend "them ladies"  I was privilege to meet ladies who are into a lot. Omo mehn Nigerian gurls are hustlers from the womb. I mean it when I say this, before now I told myself that I was into alot because I'm a language tutor in a school, a blogger, graphics designer, a singer, social media manager, photo and video editor .  I just felt I didn't have a focus... But the big idea is having multiple streams of income, inste...

10 years old Raped And Expelled

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 Medicine After Death I choose to Pen this down after seeing the whole rape saga of a 10 years old school girl. When I see people campaign after election I wonder what they intend to achieve. Count your teeth with your tongue. I have said this time and time again don't interchange parental role with teacher's role I'm a tutor and I know key roles of teachers as well. My dear they are two different tasks. Ask yourself how long does a child spend in school and how long does he/she stay at home? With exemption for those in boarding school. How am I sure you ain't sending your kids to boarding so as to relieve you of your parental responsibilities Please don't have kids you know you don't have capacity to raise better go and learn how to raise good kids When we tell single sisters/brothers to read books for marriage they think it should be for marriage alone, where's the place of parenting. Get books on good parenting As much as you prepare for marriage, prepare...