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SHORT OR LONG TERM COURTSHIP WHICH IS BETTER            Over the years studies have shown that a good and  strong relationship is not decided by the number of years spent  together but rather a lasting relationship is built on love and nothing but love. This topic has become a debatable fact, whether  it is best to live in a long courtship or court short time before marriage. for the purpose of this blog and my esteemed viewers I personally did a questionnaire just to get peoples opinion on this, I don’t want to fetch you guys an half baked cake so from my personal reviews’ and judgments I was able to come up with these.        Many a time, not all relationship that court long live to stay long, plus not all that breezes in and out ends terribly, this will lead me to say that some people court for   a long time in order to really know who they are with or better put what they want this is the philosophy ...

SIDE EFFECT OF SOCIAL MEDIA FORUM IN A RELATIONSHIP(pt 1) If I know nothing else I know the powerful impact of the media to our every day live, it has the ability to arouse the human spirit either passively or actively, the media can either inspire people and bring out the best in them or discourage them, get them insecure, make people malicious in nature or if possible create a sphere of doubt in them, of course you know these forums they could inject fear in a person, it could be on any platforms like whatsapp, instagram, facebook and the list is endless. I stand to say the media has done more harm than good to us as a people and to our striving relationships, it is often said that not all advises from social media group is worthwhile, if I stand to be corrected some experts just sit in the comforts of their homes and dish out advises that have not gone through intense scrutiny and you on the other hand when toss by the vicissitudes of relationship just click and start readin...

LIFE Life is real! life is earnest. It’s a school where experiences are gathered Where regrets are made! Lessons are taught, A place where tomorrow is a mystery And today becomes a history. Life is but an empty dream It’s a king with a general called fate At most directs you to his course It favors’ some, neglects others, With no words to question it. Life is a sequence we follow, but does not follow, Its like a clock that ticks, only its time  has no switch It brings all on board, but drops some on the way Even though it’s broad, only few passes safe Life teaches without being lectured Life is a an unfair luck for some Not all with his inheritance is worthy Life greets everyone with unknown reason Life doesn’t obey science, the Yoruba will say AYE AKAMARA meaning WORLD OF MYSTERIES. By Adebayo Olatunji Richard (call me STRANGER) Thank you Richard! For this outstanding write up about life, you could send in all your unique writ...

5 TOPNOTCH FOR RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE Its often said that ignorant is a disease that is incurable by a physician, therefore be ignoramus it’s a big prize to be paid in future when you fail to follow certain germane principles of relationships and marriage. Many a time in our walk of finding perfect relationship a lot of things become nebulous that leaves   us scattered and battered. Here are 5 facts that will open your eyes into what a meaningful relationship should actually entails…. ·        Physical affinity ·        say what you mean and mean what you say ·        Goals and visions ·        Motives in relationship ·        Maturity in relationship. All these facts will be explicated below   as you ensure to keep your eyes glued to the screen I assure   you that after   reading this piece you...

A   LOVE STORY Hello viewers today we are gonna be looking at some real life relationship issues and heart to heart advice will be shared, don’t undermined any little issue that blow out in your relationship, settle it before it gets out of hand…here is a true love story…. Hello please   post and make me anonymous I am 22 years old and am a law student of 400 level I still have 1 year to complete my studies. I have been dating this guy for the past two years now, I love him so much that sometimes I send him money from my little pocket money plus anytime we have brief holiday I travel to see him with my own money, I love him so much and I guess he does love me too but the big issue is that he doesn’t spend on me. Many a time when I go to visit him I have to buy what the both of will eat for as long as am gonna stay…he said he loves me but if he can’t spend on me now that we are in a relationship I don’t think he will when we get married, he has never bought a presen...

Gem that convulse      Flipping through the valve of innocuous voices I realize that one of the most fascinating gift of mankind is love, love has taken placate measures to convulse with me. It is apparent that the world will not have existed without love.     Love is life greatest gift, love is the only task worthy of life, love is your task, to love yourself and strive to be the best of you , to love others by encouraging and supporting them to be the best of themselves. To love God by living according to his set plans for your life. To love simply means to give yourself freely, completely, unconditionally to someone or something.      There is no limit to the extent you can love, I believe in the seed of love which has been planted in every heart, every man/woman out there who has been in love, was once in love, or is still in love needs a conscious steady reminder that it still exist, though little debacle here and ther...

VIRTUE BASED RELATIONSHIP In a world of stereotypes and sound beat, when we speak of virtue is assumed we are hitting on an empty drum, the potency of virtue in every relationship can’t be undermined. Moral excellence, the quality of doing what is right and avoiding what is wrong this is virtue according to the oxford English dictionary. virtue makes every respectful and meaningful relationship possible, it helps us achieve our essentials in life which is being the best of your kind, no one is like you even thou you are identical , you are unique in a peculiar way. A misplacement of virtue can lead to misplacement of priorities in our lives this is way virtue remain the bed rock of every genuine relationship. Virtues entails, love, forgiveness, generosity, forbearance, humility, gentleness and kindness. Keep in mind that the reason for every relationship is to encourage, support and bring out the best in your partner. The following will help you understand how far a relationship c...