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XMAS NOTE TO SELF Hi esteemed viewers! Compliments of the season, I know its been a swell time this holiday trying to make booking for nice vacation places, making reservations for cozy hotels. You know one thing that amazes me about this season? is that almost everybody around the tends o do the same thing, like getting a new car, moving to a new apartment or refurbishing already existing one, people trying to meet with friends that   they seldom gets time to meet with, everyone getting a present for their loved ones including their enemies because that is what the holy scripture says, plus some people will wanna change their wardrobe reasons best know to them, others wanna try out new dishes, visit new place, experience a different weather from what they are used to but generally the weather worldwide is cold science will be in   best position to explicate this. In this piece I would like to share some of the things I told myself to do in this season of Christ birt...

STORY QUESTION 001           Hello viewers this is my own story question, so yesterday my phone rang I picked up the call   it was my boo, we are in an open relationship kinda he is not ready to be committed even when I try to put in my all. First of all he didn’t call me on my birthday, second of all he is seeing someone.5 days after my birthday I called him, at first he didn’t pick up buh he returned the call few hours later I was with my little nieces too busy then I told him I will call when am less busy, fortunately I did and the cat was let out of the bag. People guess what? This dude said he was sick and not only was he sick he could not go out of his room he was indoors for days even his neighbors thought he traveled, little did they know that my boo was indoors and down. He apologized as usual and my reply was I am use to it this isn’t the first time , please help me reason this oh how sick can a person be that he wont be ...

Hello Esteemed viewers Its another 365 days again of your humble host, i just wanna say a big thank you to all who believed in me when i started this blog i want you to stick close cause we are going places. Here is a little bio of me for those of you who are yet to know me and are new on this platform. BRIEF PERSONAL DETAILS Hello everyone! My name is Blessing but I choose my blog name to be sugargurl, I know some of you will be, wondering what’s the motive behind this blog? Who is this dark skin damsel? no need to worry am here to answer all of your personal questions. Am a young lady in her prime who choose to write not just write but share stories that will transform lives. i draw inspirations from my mum who has been tossed by the broken mirrors of love shenanigan, am a promising writer who will always be here for anyone who choose to come share their personal stories. Nevertheless am from a country where credibility and integrity has been sold but I promise you th...

SHORT OR LONG TERM COURTSHIP WHICH IS BETTER            Over the years studies have shown that a good and  strong relationship is not decided by the number of years spent  together but rather a lasting relationship is built on love and nothing but love. This topic has become a debatable fact, whether  it is best to live in a long courtship or court short time before marriage. for the purpose of this blog and my esteemed viewers I personally did a questionnaire just to get peoples opinion on this, I don’t want to fetch you guys an half baked cake so from my personal reviews’ and judgments I was able to come up with these.        Many a time, not all relationship that court long live to stay long, plus not all that breezes in and out ends terribly, this will lead me to say that some people court for   a long time in order to really know who they are with or better put what they want this is the philosophy ...

SIDE EFFECT OF SOCIAL MEDIA FORUM IN A RELATIONSHIP(pt 1) If I know nothing else I know the powerful impact of the media to our every day live, it has the ability to arouse the human spirit either passively or actively, the media can either inspire people and bring out the best in them or discourage them, get them insecure, make people malicious in nature or if possible create a sphere of doubt in them, of course you know these forums they could inject fear in a person, it could be on any platforms like whatsapp, instagram, facebook and the list is endless. I stand to say the media has done more harm than good to us as a people and to our striving relationships, it is often said that not all advises from social media group is worthwhile, if I stand to be corrected some experts just sit in the comforts of their homes and dish out advises that have not gone through intense scrutiny and you on the other hand when toss by the vicissitudes of relationship just click and start readin...

LIFE Life is real! life is earnest. It’s a school where experiences are gathered Where regrets are made! Lessons are taught, A place where tomorrow is a mystery And today becomes a history. Life is but an empty dream It’s a king with a general called fate At most directs you to his course It favors’ some, neglects others, With no words to question it. Life is a sequence we follow, but does not follow, Its like a clock that ticks, only its time  has no switch It brings all on board, but drops some on the way Even though it’s broad, only few passes safe Life teaches without being lectured Life is a an unfair luck for some Not all with his inheritance is worthy Life greets everyone with unknown reason Life doesn’t obey science, the Yoruba will say AYE AKAMARA meaning WORLD OF MYSTERIES. By Adebayo Olatunji Richard (call me STRANGER) Thank you Richard! For this outstanding write up about life, you could send in all your unique writ...

5 TOPNOTCH FOR RELATIONSHIP AND MARRIAGE Its often said that ignorant is a disease that is incurable by a physician, therefore be ignoramus it’s a big prize to be paid in future when you fail to follow certain germane principles of relationships and marriage. Many a time in our walk of finding perfect relationship a lot of things become nebulous that leaves   us scattered and battered. Here are 5 facts that will open your eyes into what a meaningful relationship should actually entails…. ·        Physical affinity ·        say what you mean and mean what you say ·        Goals and visions ·        Motives in relationship ·        Maturity in relationship. All these facts will be explicated below   as you ensure to keep your eyes glued to the screen I assure   you that after   reading this piece you...