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soul's panacea         I see a growing image of starved generations with a fascinating concoction of victimization, betrayal, hurts, guilt that is patterned in folded fears of ‘’that’s how the world has turn out to be’’ situations has defined and decided our fate instead of us to decide/define situations. I have heard stories of   separations, abusers, pathological issues, emotional predators, parasitic relationship and my ears begins to drip, while my brows raised wondering why after flexible technologies and materials made available people still get estranged, entangle, perplex, bitter and batter in their relationships.        However, few subject in life ignite as much passion and longing within us as our desire for love, our interest in sex and our hope for long lasting relationships stretches. Regardless of our race, background, values, intelligence or experiences, we all long to be loved. Every person on planet earth ...

Hello people!  its a beautiful new decade, happy new year to you and everyone around you, i hope you guys have recovered from the euphoria of the season.this is just to keep the promise i made... How was your new celebration? guess it went well!  promised to send my pix in one of my Xmas note, here we are... sorry i couldn't make my hair so i just had to come up with a weave.

NEW YEAR'S EVE NOTE   Hello beautiful people! Its new eve in anticipation of a new year(2020) lemme tell you what people in this part of the world are busy doing right now... some are set to go out to their different denomination of worship to have an encounter cross over night vigil service , others are getting set to attend a birthday/hangout party. The business men/women won’t have a break they feel this is that moment where they would acquire all the money they have not been able to make in the course of the year therefore, they would sleep, eat, and cross over(into the new year) in their business places. while other people think this is a crucial moment of their life to do a self reflection/evaluation of the things they achieved and couldn’t achieve as the year comes to a close, some feel they need a great rest and will have it by taking enough sleep since their boss won’t give them a break this time and probably on new year’s day, this is the only chance they have...

XMAS NOTE TO SELF Hi esteemed viewers! Compliments of the season, I know its been a swell time this holiday trying to make booking for nice vacation places, making reservations for cozy hotels. You know one thing that amazes me about this season? is that almost everybody around the tends o do the same thing, like getting a new car, moving to a new apartment or refurbishing already existing one, people trying to meet with friends that   they seldom gets time to meet with, everyone getting a present for their loved ones including their enemies because that is what the holy scripture says, plus some people will wanna change their wardrobe reasons best know to them, others wanna try out new dishes, visit new place, experience a different weather from what they are used to but generally the weather worldwide is cold science will be in   best position to explicate this. In this piece I would like to share some of the things I told myself to do in this season of Christ birt...

STORY QUESTION 001           Hello viewers this is my own story question, so yesterday my phone rang I picked up the call   it was my boo, we are in an open relationship kinda he is not ready to be committed even when I try to put in my all. First of all he didn’t call me on my birthday, second of all he is seeing someone.5 days after my birthday I called him, at first he didn’t pick up buh he returned the call few hours later I was with my little nieces too busy then I told him I will call when am less busy, fortunately I did and the cat was let out of the bag. People guess what? This dude said he was sick and not only was he sick he could not go out of his room he was indoors for days even his neighbors thought he traveled, little did they know that my boo was indoors and down. He apologized as usual and my reply was I am use to it this isn’t the first time , please help me reason this oh how sick can a person be that he wont be ...

Hello Esteemed viewers Its another 365 days again of your humble host, i just wanna say a big thank you to all who believed in me when i started this blog i want you to stick close cause we are going places. Here is a little bio of me for those of you who are yet to know me and are new on this platform. BRIEF PERSONAL DETAILS Hello everyone! My name is Blessing but I choose my blog name to be sugargurl, I know some of you will be, wondering what’s the motive behind this blog? Who is this dark skin damsel? no need to worry am here to answer all of your personal questions. Am a young lady in her prime who choose to write not just write but share stories that will transform lives. i draw inspirations from my mum who has been tossed by the broken mirrors of love shenanigan, am a promising writer who will always be here for anyone who choose to come share their personal stories. Nevertheless am from a country where credibility and integrity has been sold but I promise you th...

SHORT OR LONG TERM COURTSHIP WHICH IS BETTER            Over the years studies have shown that a good and  strong relationship is not decided by the number of years spent  together but rather a lasting relationship is built on love and nothing but love. This topic has become a debatable fact, whether  it is best to live in a long courtship or court short time before marriage. for the purpose of this blog and my esteemed viewers I personally did a questionnaire just to get peoples opinion on this, I don’t want to fetch you guys an half baked cake so from my personal reviews’ and judgments I was able to come up with these.        Many a time, not all relationship that court long live to stay long, plus not all that breezes in and out ends terribly, this will lead me to say that some people court for   a long time in order to really know who they are with or better put what they want this is the philosophy ...