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  I will hate more than anything to wake up one day and find that I can no longer call you, chat you up, play with you, feel free with you like we used to because you picked romantic interest in me and I turned it down. It will be so painful to see your WhatsApp story and then after typing a lengthy funny response, I will then pause to think and then go ahead to delete the message on remembering that we are not as we use to be. It will be sad to soil the friendship we have built over the years because one of us did not understand that God did not put everyone in our life for us to date, no matter how beautiful the friendship might be. I know there is this pressure to get married from your end but please hold your fire.  Maybe it is not even marriage pressure. It could be a longing to fish in love waters but we must not fish together.  You might want to ask 'what then happens to marry your friend?'  That might be correct. You should marry your friend but  unfortu...

 *THE VENOM OF SELFISHNESS IN A RELATIONSHIP*  Hello great minds 😊😊 I'm glad we made it to a new year. I saw this post on a group and had the permission to share so read, digest and send in your take on this... A lot of people are married, but single. You think you are married to someone, but the person is not even married to you emotionally. You may be living under the same roof but far apart emotionally. I feel like we need to talk about how damaged a lot of us are. How materialistic we have become. How self-obsessed we are as a people. How about how selfish? "I deserve the best", yes, you do. But while you deserve the best, the person you want the best from, is he/she getting the best as well from you? Our generation is just too selfish. It is always about you. You want someone to love you and accept you, but you are a bag of negativity and emotional liability. You are unstable. You never look inside. You never tell yourself the truth. You are always right, they are ...

Hello cutie 💕💓💓 so today I will be sharing four F's relationship and it's components as regards our relationship... This might actually take you by surprise, but I want you to know that no relationship can excel without these F's...here is a little analysis. For the F's relationship, here I will be considering the four components of F's  Faith Finance Family Friends  It's FAITH that will makes you commit and connect with someone you barely know for a life time relationship, or better yet you might actually know this person but how well do you know him/her? Seasons change so do people. Faith is a key component that drives every love based relationship, ask experts and the truth won't be far from this. There have been many controversies with regards to finance in love relationships wether married, engaged or dating, some person's find it difficult to discuss their earnings with their spouse, or some don't share financial responsibilities for reason...

  .                                             I’ll volunteer to be your VOICE today, but when you’re done reading this article you must make up your mind to be your own VOICE and decide everything  that happens to you on a daily basis.  The past is history, the present is your decision making mechanism which will eventually turn up a light 🕯️🕯️ to your future…read and digest this article. Sugargurl.blogspot.com All my life I have never been abused, But my friend’s mom was. Though she didn’t tell me everything that happened to her, or the gravity of her emotional issues, But over the years I have come to  imagine everything that happened to her from her look to her communication gap with people, this however truncated her relationship with people from her childhood to adult life. She lived a traumatized life. The life of guilt, hurt, pain  self p...

 concern. Hello!! People  Great Morning 🌻🌻🌄 to you  Yes I said I was gonna continue with temperament I didn't know ever existed, so I did this is basically the last part of the article...read internalize n have an amazing week... O: Meaning of O in the name MAOBIA means: You are very open-minded. Constancy and truth as friend or lover earns great happiness. Ruled by head not heart, search far and wide for your path. Selfishness will defeat plans unless you modify demands. Sedentary habits are bad for you, keep active. Misfortune the consequence of own recklessness. Fantasy and illusions mar love life. Devotion will be rewarded. Flirtatious habits lead to disappointment and bad luck. Idealist in love, take time choosing mate. You are very interested in sexual activities yet secretive and shy about your desires. You can re-channel much of your sexual energy into making money and/or seeking power. You can easily have extended periods of celibacy. You are a passionate, com...

 Hyie famz 💗💗💗 I guess our weekend is interestingly amazing??? I have been kinda busy but just feel I should share this to my awesome readers Haven studied several kind of temperament their strength and weaknesses little did I know that there's more to temperament until I came  across this 👁️ opening article that blew me up. Temperament are inherent powers we were made of some are strong others are weak, but as individual we must not allow the less to overturn the powerful. At the end of this article you will agree with me that temperament control every facets of human life form relationship to communication and family life. Here is the full meaning and  analogy of a maobic personality, interestingly enough I love 💕💕💕 this temperament because it says alot about me.. enjoy the sumptuous meal 🍵🥤 M: Meaning of M in the name MAOBIA means: Success comes easily to you. Physical comfort and wealth matter most. Over indulgence and bad habits are your undoing. Respect and...

There is no limit to the extent you can love...   I believe in the seed of love which has been planted in every heart, every man/woman out there who has been in love or  was once in love, or is still in love needs a conscious steady reminder that it still exist...🥰🥰  Though little debacle here and there may waive its ugly,😱😱 head but is in you. However for many years, there is always a challenge of how no matter how many principles, precepts, facts and figures and program people are taught on this subject,📗 of love there seems to be missing a ingredients🧉🧉 that’s the question that propelled this write up.🖍️🖍️ So many a time we find it difficult to love...🌹🌹🌹 we have multiplied our past(hearts breaks,💘💘 sacrifices, frustrations, rejections and abuse) and reduced our values plus there’s this laconic resentment that has build an unsourmatable wall in our hearts, it look as if it can never be real. Every once in while we get trapped by what we are b...