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 Every woman is bold, beautiful and Smart, regardless of her color, race, tribe or environments. This is to say that there is no mountain you can't climb when you have the will power to fuel your engine, however many a woman have been face masked with cruel factors.  No one should make you feel less of who you are, don't get intimidated with fears of the unknown push and pull until you hit that dreams of yours. Remember you can't be weak forever, break the doggma, brace up and keep being you, start small and start well I want us to look at this powerful Woman Condoleeza Rice. She is one of the most powerful woman I admit so much with all sincerity and humility . LET US MEET  Condoleeza Rice she is one of the most powerful woman in the world and Bush's secret weapon. As an international study scholar and later provost at the Standford university throughout the 80s and 90s, she was security adviser to president Bush. She has drawn both fire and praise for extraordinary m...

    Raw love and emotional issue can be intricate and sometimes delicate to discuss, notwithstanding there are 5 salient thing you must be sure of before you say I do, LADIES be careful 'I love you' is not all there is to a life long relationship. Credit to Musa Gift for being a wonderful love coach. (5 QUESTIONS TO ASK HIM)  1) CAN YOU BE ALL I WANT? A Woman INSTINCTIVELY and naturally SEEKS and NEEDS her Man to be many things. ✔️ Her FRIEND  ✔️ Her LOVER ✔️ Her GIST BUDDY  ✔️ Her PRIEST  ✔️ Her HUSBAND  ✔️ A FATHER (to their kids) When he fails in one of this areas, it tells on her emotionally and  This is why you ask him questions, observe him closely. And attend Marriage seminars together.  2) CAN YOU HANDLE MY STRENGTHS?  You have strengths, talents, gifts, passions that God has put inside of you.  Can he handle them? Or is he the insecure type who will want to suppress the greatness in you because you are his Wife? 3) CAN YOU ...

   Hello guys, I bumped into this post and I choose to share it... Enjoy  ARE YOU CAPABLE FOR MARRIAGE  ❓❓ I was reading a particular place in my bible this morning and the disciples of Christ were asking him about his opinion on divorce since Moses in the old testament permitted them to divorce. But Jesus responded and I rephrased, "That was not part of God's original plan on marriage but due to hardness of your heart. God's original plan was that a man should leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife and  no one should desecrate his art by cutting them apart. The only exception for you to divorce your partner is when he or she commits adultery". On hearing this, one of the disciples gave a response in form of a question, which I believe every single would love to ask as well."If those are the terms of marriage, WE'RE STUCK. Why get married?" This got me thinking to myself. But Jesus gave a deeper response which I will love everyone married or ...

  I will hate more than anything to wake up one day and find that I can no longer call you, chat you up, play with you, feel free with you like we used to because you picked romantic interest in me and I turned it down. It will be so painful to see your WhatsApp story and then after typing a lengthy funny response, I will then pause to think and then go ahead to delete the message on remembering that we are not as we use to be. It will be sad to soil the friendship we have built over the years because one of us did not understand that God did not put everyone in our life for us to date, no matter how beautiful the friendship might be. I know there is this pressure to get married from your end but please hold your fire.  Maybe it is not even marriage pressure. It could be a longing to fish in love waters but we must not fish together.  You might want to ask 'what then happens to marry your friend?'  That might be correct. You should marry your friend but  unfortu...

 *THE VENOM OF SELFISHNESS IN A RELATIONSHIP*  Hello great minds 😊😊 I'm glad we made it to a new year. I saw this post on a group and had the permission to share so read, digest and send in your take on this... A lot of people are married, but single. You think you are married to someone, but the person is not even married to you emotionally. You may be living under the same roof but far apart emotionally. I feel like we need to talk about how damaged a lot of us are. How materialistic we have become. How self-obsessed we are as a people. How about how selfish? "I deserve the best", yes, you do. But while you deserve the best, the person you want the best from, is he/she getting the best as well from you? Our generation is just too selfish. It is always about you. You want someone to love you and accept you, but you are a bag of negativity and emotional liability. You are unstable. You never look inside. You never tell yourself the truth. You are always right, they are ...

Hello cutie 💕💓💓 so today I will be sharing four F's relationship and it's components as regards our relationship... This might actually take you by surprise, but I want you to know that no relationship can excel without these F's...here is a little analysis. For the F's relationship, here I will be considering the four components of F's  Faith Finance Family Friends  It's FAITH that will makes you commit and connect with someone you barely know for a life time relationship, or better yet you might actually know this person but how well do you know him/her? Seasons change so do people. Faith is a key component that drives every love based relationship, ask experts and the truth won't be far from this. There have been many controversies with regards to finance in love relationships wether married, engaged or dating, some person's find it difficult to discuss their earnings with their spouse, or some don't share financial responsibilities for reason...

  .                                             I’ll volunteer to be your VOICE today, but when you’re done reading this article you must make up your mind to be your own VOICE and decide everything  that happens to you on a daily basis.  The past is history, the present is your decision making mechanism which will eventually turn up a light 🕯️🕯️ to your future…read and digest this article. Sugargurl.blogspot.com All my life I have never been abused, But my friend’s mom was. Though she didn’t tell me everything that happened to her, or the gravity of her emotional issues, But over the years I have come to  imagine everything that happened to her from her look to her communication gap with people, this however truncated her relationship with people from her childhood to adult life. She lived a traumatized life. The life of guilt, hurt, pain  self p...