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   There have been so many controversies as to handling disappoinment from friends, spouse and even family members. Sometimes life in itself is enough disappointment for us, always preparing for what will never be.  I wonder how people just betray their friends and still feel okay about it. Anyways to err is human to forgive is divine. Will you  agree with the saying " keep your friends close and your enemy closer?  I don't flow with this though. However in this post I'll be sharing some thoughts from people on how they handle disappoinment or heartbreak form the people they love so much. ❤️🧡🧡❤️🧡🧡❤️🧡🧡 Here are some thoughts from people... 🎯  I forgive easily but won't just forget. 🎯 And so, when I notice a negative energy, I will ignore and avoid the person 360°... I'll sure tell the person I'm hurt... But heh, I will avoid the intimacy. 🎯 Forgiveness doesn't mean acceptance...  🎯 We should forgive, because God forgave us and because unforgiv...

All handsome dudes gather here let's have a heart to heart discussion. There are things you won't learn in the classroom or get from book knowledge I want you to read and internalize this post First of...  when last did you give a genuine compliment to your bae ?? When last did you appreciate your Girlfriend?  OR  Do you think giving compliments is only a woman's thing?? 2 Counsels I have for You 1) Normalize giving Compliments Don't go into Marriage and become that Husband who can't compliment his wife even when there's a reason to, just because he's not used to it. Don't be that brother who feels awkward giving compliments..  You'll need that skill in Marriage.. If you have  F9 in that area, work on it, start with your friends, Male and female, your colleagues in the office, "Nice Shoe"  "Wow, I love your Tie." "Fine Hairstyle, what's it called?" Marriage will not AUTOMATICALLY change what you refuse to change INTE...

  Hello beautiful ❤️ people  I promised last week to share some business ideas or skills you can learn/ earn from while waiting.  After a little research i found out some profitable things single ladies/ dudes can engage in before and even after marriage However these are not all there is but just a few I think will be profitable whether as sideline, additional or a main hustle Below are the business ideas I critically researched on;  1. Digital skills 2. Data Analyst 3. Video editing 4.Animation maker 4. Running Errands 5. House Chores 6. Baking ; cakes and small chops 7.Interior Designer  8. Making of Dresses 9. Hair styling 10. Digital marketing 11. Content Creation 12. Finance Analyst 13. Media manager 14. Copy writing 15. Selling diced vegetables like carrots, cabbage, greens etc 16. Cleaning of offices/houses 17. Network marketing genuine ones 18. Facial make-up 19. Delivery chef  20. Dispatcher 21. Photo editing/photography 22. Cleaning of Toilet. 2...

  So today I was telling my sister of how I joined a group for like 2 years now I have been an ardent follower in that group. This is what spurred this post  It's actually a group Called the Balanced spinster.  I love ladies who are into lots of things i.e   Smart and slay You slay with your intellect not with your body, what's your value guage, what's your worth, aside your portfolio what other things can you do? Yeah some of you will say jack of all trades master of none. That's not the point here  In this country I must  commend "them ladies"  I was privilege to meet ladies who are into a lot. Omo mehn Nigerian gurls are hustlers from the womb. I mean it when I say this, before now I told myself that I was into alot because I'm a language tutor in a school, a blogger, graphics designer, a singer, social media manager, photo and video editor .  I just felt I didn't have a focus... But the big idea is having multiple streams of income, inste...

 Medicine After Death I choose to Pen this down after seeing the whole rape saga of a 10 years old school girl. When I see people campaign after election I wonder what they intend to achieve. Count your teeth with your tongue. I have said this time and time again don't interchange parental role with teacher's role I'm a tutor and I know key roles of teachers as well. My dear they are two different tasks. Ask yourself how long does a child spend in school and how long does he/she stay at home? With exemption for those in boarding school. How am I sure you ain't sending your kids to boarding so as to relieve you of your parental responsibilities Please don't have kids you know you don't have capacity to raise better go and learn how to raise good kids When we tell single sisters/brothers to read books for marriage they think it should be for marriage alone, where's the place of parenting. Get books on good parenting As much as you prepare for marriage, prepare...

  All ladies come in here let's have a talk this post is for you. 8 Reason why you are still single 1. BOY-FRIEND SPIRIT  The last thing on a Boy's Mind is Marriage. Boys don't think of marriage, they want to have fun first, and marry later, they enter into relationships only for fun and sex,  Dear Lady, if you want marriage, stop dating boys, you'll only end up as a baby mama.. A Boy is different from a Man.  A Boy wants only Relationship.  A Man wants Marriage. 2. LORD OF THE RING SPIRIT  Aunty, say NO to Lord of the Rings oh. Engagement ring will celebrate 7 years anniversary on someone's finger. No be juju be dat? You're even planning to celebrate your engagement anniversary again this year. Kai. When will he do the needful? 3. HARD TO GET This spirit tells you not to accept a marriage proposal in a hurry, to do plenty unnecessary shakara so that the brother will not think you are cheap or desperate. It tells you to tell him to give you nine months to p...

 Abusive Being in an abusive relationship/marriage is the worse that can happen to anyone I hear some ladies say they love it when their man beats them up, pleas is this a new trend I'm not aware of? How can you be comfortable with a woman beater? Maybe something has been done to your psychic. Hence no reasonable person will be comfortable with this inhuman act. I have read my eyes out on the internet concerning the death of this woman She was a woman of God full of the holy spirit, who even said her husband will turn a new leave. Dear sister is not in your spiritual prowess to change any man. God is showing you red flags so you can run with your life in tact. If you claim you love God then why won't you forgive and forget rather than beat a woman you have laid with, a woman you wedded on the alter before God, the mother of your children, the person who choose to erase her name and take up yours. No wonder in some advance countries they have contract marriages/open marriages an...